Wednesday 12 October 2016
Adding to Your Entourage
More so than ever before, there are many beings and groupings of beings that are interested in connecting with individuals on this planet. These beings are not directly connected with any one person at this time. Some are new to this 'area' and some have been observing, or have been aware of Earth, for some time. It is always possible to add to your entourage. It is networking in a whole other dimension and can bring countless benefits to your life.
Thursday 6 October 2016
Being an individual while deeply connected with another (an inspired writing)
Singularity & connection are seen at opposite ends of the spectrum. It is often challenging here (on Earth) to see how they can be simultaneously experienced with integrity. We often protect our singularity through whatever means one has evolved to feel safe. Depending on early circumstances, connection may be equated with being vulnerable and opening oneself up to negative experiences.
For those of you that focus on their flaws, the shortcomings of others and the negativity of the world, you are able to continue in the justification of needing to remain in the singular protected state. It becomes the reason to armour. You cover up the wonder and beauty of yourself and all that is around you as you believe it is a state of weakness to appear, or actually be, in that space. When you dabble in seeing that which is 'good and right,' it expands your state too quickly beyond your comfort zone and you find ways to slow or consistently stop this by proving that the world is an attacking place. Your best response then is to be on alert, attack first and punish those who dare to 'mess' with your system. You tend to exist in a constant state of blame as to why you are in an undesirable condition.
For those of you that do not trust your individuality within connection. You have learned that for ease of connection you must put aside elements of yourself. Over time this comes at a greater cost as the feeling of not being whole becomes more apparent and dissatisfactory. You then begin to believe that you are not enough, as you are not experiencing your wholeness in connection. You see the only time that expressing your wholeness is possible is in singularity. You perceive connection with another as a threat to your state of being whole.
There are those of you that have not found your voice of individuality expression which represents you well. You either hide certain elements of who you are, depending on the type and depth of the connection, or you try to force upon others an expression of yourself which hides the truth of who you are. In both cases, you are not comfortable, and feel that it is unsafe to express your individuality, while deeply connected to an other.
You have the misguided notion that contrast disappears with connection. When the other does not fall completely in sync with your expectations when you are connected, then it is seen as something being wrong. If you work more so on recognizing and appreciating each other's individuality, then connection becomes wondrous and easy. You have tended to see the differences as a threat to the self and have preferred to seek conformity from the other. The key is in acknowledging and allowing the other's nonconformity, for joyous union to evolve. This is possible, however, here, differences are perceived as that which dissembles. You are not comfortable, or have not exercised your flexibility enough, to understand that, as an evolving human being, you are in a constant state of flux. Most of you want to get to a 'point' and remain there. This is not truly possible and there are many undesirable (as perceived by you) outcomes to trying to remain in a certain state. The illnesses, discomfort, pain, depression, etc is not seen as reminders that growth is being called for but rather as obstacles to continuing on, or going back to, as one was.
The key is to see each moment as newly created and an opportunity to newly create. It is in the releasing and forgetting of that which was undesirable, and remembering that which is, to prevail, that we live that which we joyously desire. You must allow for the re-creation of self in each and every moment. This does not mean that there has to be ongoing major shiftings every second, but that the possibility & awareness for this is alive and well. This will allow for ease of transition and allowance of being when experiencing contrasts of expression within loving connections. Wholeness continuously evolves and the sense of self is known. Questioning of this by self or other is met with curious openness, not fear. It is knowing that if the contrast exists it is because you have called it into being as part of your evolution, which involves both dissembling and creating.
For those of you that focus on their flaws, the shortcomings of others and the negativity of the world, you are able to continue in the justification of needing to remain in the singular protected state. It becomes the reason to armour. You cover up the wonder and beauty of yourself and all that is around you as you believe it is a state of weakness to appear, or actually be, in that space. When you dabble in seeing that which is 'good and right,' it expands your state too quickly beyond your comfort zone and you find ways to slow or consistently stop this by proving that the world is an attacking place. Your best response then is to be on alert, attack first and punish those who dare to 'mess' with your system. You tend to exist in a constant state of blame as to why you are in an undesirable condition.
For those of you that do not trust your individuality within connection. You have learned that for ease of connection you must put aside elements of yourself. Over time this comes at a greater cost as the feeling of not being whole becomes more apparent and dissatisfactory. You then begin to believe that you are not enough, as you are not experiencing your wholeness in connection. You see the only time that expressing your wholeness is possible is in singularity. You perceive connection with another as a threat to your state of being whole.
There are those of you that have not found your voice of individuality expression which represents you well. You either hide certain elements of who you are, depending on the type and depth of the connection, or you try to force upon others an expression of yourself which hides the truth of who you are. In both cases, you are not comfortable, and feel that it is unsafe to express your individuality, while deeply connected to an other.
You have the misguided notion that contrast disappears with connection. When the other does not fall completely in sync with your expectations when you are connected, then it is seen as something being wrong. If you work more so on recognizing and appreciating each other's individuality, then connection becomes wondrous and easy. You have tended to see the differences as a threat to the self and have preferred to seek conformity from the other. The key is in acknowledging and allowing the other's nonconformity, for joyous union to evolve. This is possible, however, here, differences are perceived as that which dissembles. You are not comfortable, or have not exercised your flexibility enough, to understand that, as an evolving human being, you are in a constant state of flux. Most of you want to get to a 'point' and remain there. This is not truly possible and there are many undesirable (as perceived by you) outcomes to trying to remain in a certain state. The illnesses, discomfort, pain, depression, etc is not seen as reminders that growth is being called for but rather as obstacles to continuing on, or going back to, as one was.
The key is to see each moment as newly created and an opportunity to newly create. It is in the releasing and forgetting of that which was undesirable, and remembering that which is, to prevail, that we live that which we joyously desire. You must allow for the re-creation of self in each and every moment. This does not mean that there has to be ongoing major shiftings every second, but that the possibility & awareness for this is alive and well. This will allow for ease of transition and allowance of being when experiencing contrasts of expression within loving connections. Wholeness continuously evolves and the sense of self is known. Questioning of this by self or other is met with curious openness, not fear. It is knowing that if the contrast exists it is because you have called it into being as part of your evolution, which involves both dissembling and creating.
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